Everyone has their weaknesses, and It ruins their lifestyles. For some individuals, it is social skills, shyness, overconfidence, overthinking and maybe some other aspects. But what if I told you that, there is a thing available that cannot only make your weaknesses not look like weaknesses anymore for others, but It can also improve those and make you a better or an average from the start, even you didn’t touch that thing for a once in your life.
Meanwhile, without making any mystery, It is confidence. Probably, You have seen a few people those are not good at everything but when they do something. You can see a shine on their faces & in their eyes, and by somehow they do whatever they are doing better even it’s their first time. They make mistakes, but they learn from those mistakes so faster than an average guy. However, It is not something special that God provides to specific people only. We all have it into us, and some us become friendly with it and unconsciously use it when they do anything, and We phrase it as confidence.
In conclusion, we are going to learn in this article how to build firm confidence and use it whenever we want.
There are 7 Rules To Build Confidence.
Self-awareness plays a crucial role in building firm confidence. If you are self-aware about yourself, then you know a lot about yourself and You belief in yourself no matter how you are, and If you find something wrong about you maybe you are fatty, thin, loser or something else, You try to improve that thing and achieve your best version. Meanwhile, If you are not self-aware about yourself, then you have to become aware of yourself.
You have to find answers to these questions such as, “What kind of person you are, What makes you different from others, What are your weaknesses and How you can improve those, How you spend your daily life, For what thing you’re passionate about, your goals, How you talk with others, and How you like to live your life.”
Surrounded by fake people,
If you are great in some points then probably you would have a few fake friends. Those are with you because of their benefits, and They always fake praise you and Didn’t tell about truth. These people are so dangerous, and If you will going to be with these, then they can kill your confidence. When they fake praise you, your mind builds fake confidence about fake things, and they didn’t tell you the truth about the task that you did, in reality, that holds you to improve & become better.
However, You have to ditch these people away from your life so, they cannot ruin your life anymore, or If you are willing to take the risk, then You can tell them that if they are going to become truthful with you, then they are going to be with you.
Confident Body Language.
Body language is what makes people judge you. If you have a weak body language, then people will think you as weak, or If you have rich body language, then people will consider you as rich. Meanwhile, a confident person body language is a balance of behavioural manners & casual. For developing a confident person body language, You need to find a balance between everything judiciously with the situation such as when you are shaking your hands with others, don’t use over-tight or over loose grip. When you are sitting on the chair, don’t sit too open or too close.
Seamlessly, If it feels hard for you to consider body language according to the situations, then you can only become simple not more formal or casual. You have to be like a usual person, and You can still stand out in between others because simple people are rare.
Dress With Style Not Flashy.
Dressing better actually effects on confidence, You might have felt it when you wear your new & best outfit for the first time. However, The way you dress is what defines your confidence, and most of the celebrities & fashion icons knew this, and They use the dressing to boost their confidence. Meanwhile, Some individuals take it wrong, and they dress flashy. Flashy clothes are those big brand clothes which have logos & graphics on them, off-white sneakers & off-white edition, all of these, You have to avoid If you want to look confident.
Confident people wear simple basic-essentials, and their style has based on these clothes. They combine accessories into their outfits to stand out, such as watches, bracelets, rings, glasses. Seamlessly, This what makes them appeal confident & stylish rather than flashy.
Don’t Praise Yourself.
It is straight forward, and everyone knew about that always praising yourself makes you look selfish & flashy that decrease confident of others in you, or make you over-confident that is worst then having less confidence. If you are from those guys who praise themselves only, then you have to consider about it and improve it instantly. However, If you instead of talking about yourself, think about listening to others, then It will make your communication betters with others and boost your confidence. Meanwhile, It can also help you as a listener to come up with better thoughts regard the conversation that will build confidence about yourself in others.
When you have to increase your confidence to a pinnacle, believing in yourself is what do it. If you are aware of yourself and You also live like who you are then your confidence reaches its high levels. I saw many individuals who try to be like someone us because that person looks cool, or he & she is successful, or he & she is well-known. However, In this, they forget the most crucial part of their life is becoming themselves developing their personality instead of replicating others.
You have to become present about your surroundings, and You have to see everything with details. When you become an absolute present, then Your mind doesn’t waste its energy on others thought to process in your mind, It uses its all power in the present movement and provides you with the confidence to do anything. However, When you are in your present, and You see everything with details like you are observing, then You unlock your true potentials, and You become able to do anything in a much better way even you didn’t perform that thing once in your past life.